Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Average guys... do "it" better?

I dont know what the deal is with all the sexual reflection lately (below post) but here's another one...(which was provoked by my thinking during the last one) Sheez.. I am so gonna regret venting about this stuff. Whatever.

Okay, something that bothers me. Hot guys think they ROCK in bed.. just b/c they're hot. Newsflash... NO. A certain Mr. Ex in my past was a rather yummy piece of eye candy.. THAT I will freely admit...and he was awesome at the actual act, but the getting there.. No. It's as if he didn't really know HOW to give a lot of effort into it b/c he'd never had to.. I mean.. he is likely an exception on A LOT of levels (annoyed eye roll) but, from knowing his past, I dont think he got turned down a lot...which is fine buuuut.. At any rate, this brings me to the theory: Average/cute guys are better b/c they've had to try harder to..um.. get to that place...than the "I know I'm hot" guys.. Agree? Yeah, fine.. no more code.. fore.play. Are average/cute guys better at foreplay? I think maybe so. When I say foreplay I mean EVERYTHING from romancing to the actual act and everything in between. I think it has a lot to do with modesty and being humble.. b/c it's not just the hotties, but the ones that KNOW they're hot.. the ones that stare in their reflection in the car windows in the parking lot. Yeah, okay.. Hmm.. You're either laughing or shaking your head at me. Either way, I'm still perplexed and like theorizing...

Getting my mind out of the gutter now...
~BB

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I don't know if average guys are better. I've only been with hot guys ;)

Anonymous said...

I think guys and girls are just different and that girls have more of a desire to please. Have you ever been with a guy that you care about so much that all you want to do is please him and could care less about yourself? I don't know if guys ever feel that way.

Anonymous said...

i think average guys are better...but the best average guys are the ones that make you laugh. for some reason, they seem to take it up a notch!